How To Be Confident

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  • Joe Alias
    Joe Alias 2 days ago

    I've had plenty of practice telling myself I am a useless piece of garbage. I think the key for me is that in the past I've been thoroughly convinced that I desperately needed to fix that. So in some cases it's just as much about accepting yourself as a nitwit as it is recognizing that you are one.

  • Ghada Adel
    Ghada Adel 2 days ago

    *How To be confident*
    Next
    *How to overcome shyness*
    Next
    *How not to be boring*
    OMG this channel knows what I want

  • Synochra
    Synochra 2 days ago

    The School of Life is doing essential work here.

  • Abhishek Singh
    Abhishek Singh 3 days ago

    confidence comes from action and mastering

  • Take Flight 23
    Take Flight 23 3 days ago

    2:22 the banana killed me 😂

  • ForeverCuber
    ForeverCuber 3 days ago

    you should have more subscribers

  • freeloder17
    freeloder17 6 days ago

    I'm a piece of shit, but then again, so is everyone else, so lets get it, lets go.

  • Too Many People
    Too Many People 9 days ago

    Other people don't think of you that much, if that.

  • Simon B.
    Simon B. 11 days ago

    So i become more confident if i tell myself that i am an idiot?

  • Cobalt
    Cobalt 11 days ago

    ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • GitfiddleMike
    GitfiddleMike 11 days ago

    While eliminating the fear of failure is great for confidence, the caveat is that one might become an unbridled jackass. One must be careful to ensure fear is a counselor and not a jailer.

  • Samaih S.
    Samaih S. 13 days ago

    Whay u don't put arabic sub

  • Kalid Jackson
    Kalid Jackson 13 days ago

    i love how all of his insults are like... high lvl and shit... me personally i jst see everything including myself as flawed. i act how i act and it doesnt bother me. life is to be lived and fuck everyone who disagrees. basically 😁

  • John Smith
    John Smith 14 days ago

    The animation is too good. Can't focus on the actual voice. haha

  • Skyris
    Skyris 15 days ago

    i love you

  • Vera Schijndel
    Vera Schijndel 15 days ago

    The sad thing about confidence is that i was never encouraged to have it. People didnt like those who tought well of themselfs or found themselfs okay. Everything in our society wanted us to feel less so we would buy more and just idk. When i was little and i liked the way my hair was braided for example, i was told by my peers never to let it show because it sounded selfish. I dont really know if it makes sense, but everytime i have to meet new people there is always that voice telling me that they dont like me and i dont deserve to be their friend because im just... me. Ordinary, stupid, awkward me. And that's what i became because i didnt have the confidence to show how interesting i really was. I am still having trouble being me and talking and making new friends, but as i feel more confident, i feel like i can talk more. It effects every part of your life so just know that confidence is more that just likeing yourself

  • Jennifer Ann de la Torre

    It seems we learn to accept ALL of ourselves -- not just the seemingly perfect side. I have done many foolish things in my life and I eventually succeed in the endeavors that are most important to me through perseverance. I try not to let anything get in the way of accomplishing my goals and dreams despite my many setbacks and disappointments.

  • Funky Dude
    Funky Dude 16 days ago

    this channel is just amazing

  • Shae Shero
    Shae Shero 17 days ago

    This vid have boosted my confidence instantly.... thanks

  • Airish Viscara
    Airish Viscara 18 days ago

    It's ridiculous but at the same time full of wisdom hahaha I liked how you explain it that it's okay to be foolish and never to be contempt about it because we accept it in ourselves. That we are born foolish that it shouldn't hold is back from being amazing

  • jbdmb
    jbdmb 19 days ago

    hmm... I get not taking yourself too seriously... but I dk

  • DreamBeatsBakery
    DreamBeatsBakery 20 days ago

    OK. I tried this. I went about my day willingly accepting the possibility that everyone could think of me as an utter douchebag. Suddenly my inhibitions flew out the window, I started speeding and going full hype in my car. Chatting up strangers and I managed to bed a 10. I love being a stupid cocksucker no good dumb dumb. Now I'm free to do what I want, when I want. I mean, who gives a shit? This is what it must feel like to be a psychopath! Fucking awesome mate!

  • Sarah Wu
    Sarah Wu 20 days ago

    But if you call yourself an "imbecile" every morning, won't that make you less confident and make you less likely to take risks? Yes, you have nothing to lose but you might not even bother taking risks because you view yourself as a failure.

  • Kris Vickers
    Kris Vickers 20 days ago

    the less you give a fuck, the happier you will be.

  • Elias Dam
    Elias Dam 20 days ago

    I can agree on a lot of this. BUT! I dont think we should call ourselves idiots or imbeciles or whatever. More like: not perfect. Yes, we are not perfect. But I dont think we are all incompetent idiots. We try, we fail, we learn. That does not make us complete idiots. We must accept that we cant do everything right, and that we have to learn. I dont think we should see ourselves as idots just because we cant do everything perfect.

  • wackaloo123
    wackaloo123 22 days ago

    Yah

  • Liferbanda
    Liferbanda 23 days ago

    This channel raised me more than school and parents

  • Rainer Dünnschiss
    Rainer Dünnschiss 25 days ago

    i always thought the painting at 2:42 is about sayings

  • Neo
    Neo 25 days ago

    We've all been taught that we should reach for coolness, but we should try to be more real about ourselves

  • Gao Riao
    Gao Riao 26 days ago

    Absolutely a great video!

  • Arcis arc
    Arcis arc 27 days ago

    THE DUTCH ARE WOKEE !

  • Sebbrix
    Sebbrix 27 days ago

    The first minute already has me down to a T: I'm unable to even add friends on Facebook for fear that they think I'm too forward and prefer social media to actual social interaction

  • Mordecai Morales
    Mordecai Morales 28 days ago

    "We are idiots now.
    We have been idiots in the past.
    We will be idiots again in the future.
    And thats okay :)."

  • Artifex Mortis
    Artifex Mortis 29 days ago

    Interesting take on confidence. Still does not change the fact that you WILL be judged by others regardless of what you do (ergo might as well do what you want). People delight in mocking others of their imperfections, it makes them feel superior, the only way to "philosophize" out of this conundrum is that if/when the others make a mistake, you can have your turn to mock them.

  • Connor Phebus
    Connor Phebus 1 month ago

    Hey there! Any ladies looking for a good time in the comment section. I am on my A game for the next 20 to 30 minutes.

  • Nickname863
    Nickname863 1 month ago

    4:33 I don't think that this is a good way to see oneself.

  • Erinaa V
    Erinaa V 1 month ago

    Now I know what's wrong with me I try to be perfect because I'm afraid others would judge me but this video really helped me a lot ❤️

  • kathaofdisaster
    kathaofdisaster 1 month ago

    so we are all idiots :D i like that !

  • melv douc
    melv douc 1 month ago

    You're only what life allows you to be. You don't get to choose whether you're confident or reserved. You can fool yourself for a while but reality will always come back to hit you in the face.

  • Tan Onay
    Tan Onay 1 month ago

    I'm so glad I found this channel.

  • Camryn Prater
    Camryn Prater 1 month ago

    i love how they used a cat as an example

  • Empatik ­
    Empatik ­ 1 month ago

    I love this channel! keep it up the good work :)

  • Jennifer Taylor
    Jennifer Taylor 1 month ago

    This is what is so refreshing about most Seniors. They have given up being so one dimensional and egotistical. No wonder ageism exists as those elders might teach us to relax and realize life is very short. What a dangerous concept. Wisdom might just mean having a good time and not caring too much about what others think or waste their time focusing one.

  • Alicia Ingalls
    Alicia Ingalls 1 month ago

    sometimes, when I'm trying something new, and I'm not sure about it, I stand in front of the mirror and insult myself with all the words and aspects I can think of. I do this, and when someone does insult me, it doesn't hurt, or surprise me, because I've heard it before, and I can joke about it.

  • Mert selvi
    Mert selvi 1 month ago

    REALLY THANKS FOR TURKISH SUBTITLES WE NEEDED IT :))) YOU'RE GREAT.

  • Butterfly Snowy
    Butterfly Snowy 1 month ago

    hahahahahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂 this is so me

  • Moraru Lucian
    Moraru Lucian 1 month ago

    Its no so healthy to lie to yourself everyone else its like you ; an idiot.
    you will overestimate people and utilimately you will fail at everything..

  • Grace Webb
    Grace Webb 1 month ago

    This is fantastic!!! I love it. So absolutely true. 👌🏻👌🏻

  • Space Squid
    Space Squid 1 month ago

    It's nice to know that I can stop looking for the point in my life where I'll stop messing up, doing embarrassing things and, generally being awkward. I used to frequently joke with my sister, asking if The Queen has actually farted in front of people, or ever peed herself as a three year old. I always look back at my younger self with disdain, grateful that I'm nowhere near THAT anymore- but I'll never be smarter, or kinder, I'll just have gone through more I guess. Just because I'm an eternal meathead doesn't mean I will never accomplish anything

  • shawarmageddonit
    shawarmageddonit 1 month ago

    The message in this video will only be fully valid once Hugh Hefner is no longer with us.

  • Roel Robles
    Roel Robles 1 month ago

    we are stupid.

  • Vault-Dweller Atheist

    i fucking hate myself.

  • Ronnie Roberts
    Ronnie Roberts 1 month ago

    Who's been here since 100,000

  • Danny
    Danny 1 month ago

    So I get told quite often that I am good looking by girls (and some guys as well) but I literally have 0 confidence at all and feel like anyone I speak to won't want to speak to me; what is going on and what should I do hahahaha

  • Jacqueline Nicoll
    Jacqueline Nicoll 1 month ago

    I've subscribed 😁this was awesome :-)

  • Eduardo Barbosa
    Eduardo Barbosa 1 month ago

    That's comforting.

  • Father Louis Williams Suga Adams Junior the third

    I'm an idiot to think that everyone cares what I do 🌚

  • Josheel Patel
    Josheel Patel 1 month ago

    i think that you should die

  • Isaac McCormick
    Isaac McCormick 1 month ago

    Thanks a lot,, Ima give it a shot

  • Valerie Buenafe
    Valerie Buenafe 1 month ago

    Wow, I have never looked at self-confidence in that way.

  • Call me Papi
    Call me Papi 1 month ago

    I used to be cocky then I got jumped by 5 black kids now I'm shy and low self esteem now I'm watching a video how to be confident 😒 I wish I still had the cocky 2012 version of me but now my 2017 version of me is so lame

  • simon rylance
    simon rylance 1 month ago

    Your video just helped me I think

  • Yeah Way
    Yeah Way 1 month ago

    I think this is my favourite video from you guys

  • Severus Snape
    Severus Snape 1 month ago

    Isn't that kind of a fatalistic view that will eventually result in not caring enough to take care ? ...

  • Liz S
    Liz S 1 month ago

    i am a knitwit.

    feels good.

  • Ms. ConFidentiality
    Ms. ConFidentiality 1 month ago

    There is some logic in this video, but I don't entirely agree with it. I have my own ideas when it comes to confidence and you can find it in my channel. Plus just because we make mistakes does not make us dumb. It means were human. There is a differents.

  • TheZebra
    TheZebra 1 month ago

    I just uploaded my first video, I'd anybody wants to listen to the turth, I recommend you watch it

  • olamide macjob
    olamide macjob 1 month ago

    You're a cretin!

  • M Adia
    M Adia 1 month ago

    Why can't they teach us these life skills in schools instead of the so called knowledge of the universe when we struggle to find ourselves?

  • Evan Edelman
    Evan Edelman 1 month ago

    Thank you so much for this :)

  • digitalsoultech
    digitalsoultech 1 month ago

    Haha. I love you school of life!

  • staywithme
    staywithme 1 month ago

    This one made me laugh a lot! Great video

  • mishal muneer
    mishal muneer 1 month ago

    OMG really addicted to this channel

  • shreeti badhani
    shreeti badhani 1 month ago

    SO FUNNY!!

  • Šone Zver
    Šone Zver 1 month ago

    accept that you are an idiot. lol wow.

  • MultiSciGeek
    MultiSciGeek 1 month ago

    We should also realize other people are idiots and not make fun of them when they fail because it anyways happens to most of us.

  • Axton404
    Axton404 1 month ago

    Basically, humans are stupid...

  • Toni MonoS
    Toni MonoS 1 month ago

    telling myself how dumb i am is indeed part of my daily routine.

  • Michael Yhwh
    Michael Yhwh 1 month ago

    drugs

  • Peyton Dracco
    Peyton Dracco 1 month ago

    Superficially this seems like good philosophical advice, but it may also serve as direction to romanticise failure and to celebrate mediocrity. While too much attachment to anything is bad, ignoring the fundamental importance of constructs like dignity and the self-restrain they beget in us as social beings is dangerous. We can even get into how opposite to the understanding of what it takes to be successful in fields of high-performance this is. I may have more to say on this issue.

  • HeAteMyPencil
    HeAteMyPencil 1 month ago

    The animation in this video straight-up blew me away. Great advice too.

  • Michael Jackson
    Michael Jackson 1 month ago

    This video doesnt help me at all

  • Maria Obscure
    Maria Obscure 1 month ago

    The warm way they speak to us, that's what touches our hearts.
    Maybe our parents and teachers could do the same 😊

  • Indy D
    Indy D 1 month ago

    Oddly freeing message

  • adrian feyen
    adrian feyen 1 month ago

    That awkward moment you finally understand Radiohead's "Creep" :)

  • Bluelincolnpark
    Bluelincolnpark 1 month ago

    Well fuck me. Where were you guys when I needed you in my struggles of relationships.

  • 7andala95
    7andala95 1 month ago

    This channel is GOLD

  • Bystander232
    Bystander232 1 month ago

    I like the art design (? I mean the styles and how they're mixed together.) of this video. And the bunnies!

  • Hadja Mobile
    Hadja Mobile 1 month ago

    I have watched and read so much about confidence. I think this might have been the thing I needed to hear.

  • comment971
    comment971 1 month ago

    Calling yourself a muttonhead is all fair and good if it's in a loving "oh, silly me!" kind of way. Otherwise, it's self-depreciating and with have the exact opposite effect than bringing you confidence.

  • Michelle Li
    Michelle Li 1 month ago

    It's so weird how he is calling everyone imbeciles but his accent (aside from the message) makes it not offensive at all. Btw loved the animations and the great quality of the videos <3

  • KimTaehyung IsForLifeuCozHeIsMyShiteu

    Remember! No matter what you do or say , you'll be judged either way! So just shine and be youself and let the haters hate as that will make you stronger, knowing they are intimidated by you will make you realise you are YOU- a beautiful person- and they look up to you so they judge so they can be on top again! Be you and you'll never fail!

  • nickmullo
    nickmullo 2 months ago

    haha @ 2:25 - 2:35

  • Derpycat flicks
    Derpycat flicks 2 months ago

    "looking like a prick" *banana walks in* *slowly dies under bed*

  • Derpycat flicks
    Derpycat flicks 2 months ago

    I failed the first step... and hid under my bed. The underneath of beds are nice...

  • Kasbian Vaulks
    Kasbian Vaulks 2 months ago

    The "looking like prick" made me spit my tea.

  • Lily Annarosa
    Lily Annarosa 2 months ago

    "I am a brilliant nitwit."

  • Darth Vader
    Darth Vader 2 months ago

    Erasmus had the best face at the dinner table

  • TheMightyWhite
    TheMightyWhite 2 months ago

    2:22 - Brilliant.

  • La Diva B. Salkeld
    La Diva B. Salkeld 2 months ago

    I Iove this channeI because instead of bombarding you with the same useIess advice you have seen too many times before, it expIains to you, in a rather caIm and funny way, a new perspective of how you couId see things.

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