How To Read ANYONE

How To Read ANYONE
Today we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything.

But we won’t stop there

Because one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it.

So let’s get into

1. Increase self-awareness
2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge)
3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site:
4. Identify common patterns
5. Make predictions based on people's body language
6. Experiment in your own life

Hope you find that helpful in identifying the body language to read people.

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GayhamGayham (11 hours ago)
If I get good charisma can I get in your pants?

laurenlauren (11 hours ago)
Read her....Drag her

Agustin GranadosAgustin Granados (1 day ago)
Camerón Díaz and him are the same person.

Helena MannkopfHelena Mannkopf (2 days ago)
Now this is Youtube quality 👌😊

Bucket VermontBucket Vermont (2 days ago)
i thought he was teaching how to read theword anyoe and i was thinking who would need this video?

Jake KellerJake Keller (2 days ago)
i like the quality of these videos

Kandice Angela SantosKandice Angela Santos (2 days ago)
It's easy. Just read the word 'ANYONE' like 'ENIWAN'.

SandNiggaSandNigga (2 days ago)
daaaamn his mouth is wide like them cartoons

petrzalkaipetrzalkai (3 days ago)
well, i think you are actually lonely

Aminata SanoAminata Sano (3 days ago)
um... is this graphic design or is this a real person???? i seriously cant tell

KidiGalKidiGal (4 days ago)
My sister was having a hard time sleeping, I was watching this video and she stopped texting and fell asleep. She fell asleep to your voice xD

Coralynn HoakCoralynn Hoak (4 days ago)
you have a big mouth

Charlie Valentine-LouttitCharlie Valentine-Louttit (4 days ago)
yo teeth are too white... but in a good way and my name is charlie so good on ya!

Demonic MoriartyDemonic Moriarty (4 days ago)
This video was getting into important videos playlist territory with how often this popped into my recommended

Quality QueenQuality Queen (5 days ago)
your next line is-

Ashlynn PimentelAshlynn Pimentel (5 days ago)
Instant sub ❤️👍

Faűszt ZarűszFaűszt Zarűsz (5 days ago)
Damn. So many mediocre men trying to penetrate a vagina. Depressive.

Peach BlackPeach Black (5 days ago)
and dont forget the SENSE OF HUMOR thing. like you have. haha You have that awesome way to tell things too. I like your smile. *subscribes*

Claudio CastroClaudio Castro (6 days ago)
Are you still leaving in Brazil?

Bauer DBauer D (6 days ago)
LOVE your channel, please keep giving us more! :)

SmeezeSmeeze (6 days ago)
ily man but my cat attacked your moving hands on the screen so i don't know about him

Undertale - ParodysUndertale - Parodys (6 days ago)
I put my middle finger up and fold the rest down
I find this yoga finger pose reduces stress while driving.

BMKC ColemanBMKC Coleman (7 days ago)
Social Engineering Fundamentals.

Spooky ChildSpooky Child (7 days ago)
I remember that since I was a kid that I would watch people, but more for a psychological reason. I wanted to understand people better, and when you're trying to concluded to why someone behaves a certain way, you notice these cues, and what your own "give away" is. What makes people realize that you have this or that going on in your home life or head? So, every interesting.

Also, where does Charlie's charisma stem and reveal itself? Hand motions and general body behavior. Women
and effeminate men have a tendency to use a lot of hand motions while talking. Some manlier men do too, but not as often. However, its very inviting and attractive to see in a person, so charisma is present. If the motions are too big, they may be off putting. if you keep things in your bubble, people like it, and feel safer.

21 dunshines21 dunshines (7 days ago)
dang ima use this

Kevin LopezKevin Lopez (8 days ago)
The library is now open

Irama ZamoraIrama Zamora (8 days ago)
I have that naturally

Gamer GirlGamer Girl (8 days ago)
this is gonna help me so much because I can't trust many people at my school cause they have been liars so I have to know how to read them if they are lying

Kube DogKube Dog (8 days ago)
If you jerk off at a party, you get a lot of different reactions. But you have to be really in tune with yourself and others to experience it fully.

Jovee GillenJovee Gillen (9 days ago)
It's hard for me sometimes because my dad has resting bitchface.

Francisca Sanchez BadillaFrancisca Sanchez Badilla (10 days ago)
what is going on with his arms and hand gestures?!?!? I feel like im watching some wierd animation.

Raleti 9Raleti 9 (10 days ago)
I laughed so hard when he was explaining the big eye story

Kuzu MochiKuzu Mochi (10 days ago)
The Whol Darn Thing "Body"

Luca PeruginiLuca Perugini (10 days ago)
i was expecting the drag queen term of "Read"

its basically a joking roast. and they are cut throat

Hello DarknessHello Darkness (11 days ago)
is it just me or i feel like sometimes he looks like a 3-D person on sims😂

TheCODFA1LIUR3TheCODFA1LIUR3 (12 days ago)
I find this channel really interesting, but I can't help but feel like a sociopath whenever I watch this

Bárbara RBárbara R (12 days ago)
I consider myself a person that likes to hear over talk, when i listen to ppl i do it fully, but I have a problem to make eye contact. I just... can't. is REALLY hard for me to do it and at the begining with ppl i don't know is kinda awkard. And they probably get the notion than i am not hearing them. After they get to know me they just stop trying to see me in the eye XD so... hu... yeah.

Erin MusicErin Music (13 days ago)
There's a good ted talk on this too

KiRi KamikazEKiRi KamikazE (13 days ago)
I love ppl who speak as fast as me :*

kathy gallardokathy gallardo (13 days ago)
how do i stop being so goddamn cynical and nyhilistic?

YouTuber ManYouTuber Man (14 days ago)
There is like lowkey something sinister about his mouth.

Like, not an insult but it's scary 😕

Patrick MoreiraPatrick Moreira (14 days ago)
I'm here because I wanne be like house ._.

Tix BlazeTix Blaze (14 days ago)
whats up?

Doo DooDoo Doo (14 days ago)
Doesnt he look like rami malek?

Ahmed AljohaniAhmed Aljohani (14 days ago)
Really awesome

Barbara PeñaBarbara Peña (14 days ago)
This is practically Lie to Me season 1 in a 11 minute video

LeearnLeearn (16 days ago)
Did anyone try to go to the website but stopped when he said don't go yet? 😂😂😂

Keiran WhatsUpKeiran WhatsUp (16 days ago)
Is he a psychologist or something

PeXxaNPeXxaN (16 days ago)
why is your mouth wider than your face

Karen corderoKaren cordero (16 days ago)
OMG if I had smile I would just smile and never talk.

Esther GrnwdEsther Grnwd (16 days ago)
I did it instinctively ever since I entered School. I don't Know how but I think it Is something I developed out of survival issues. I grew up in a very hard "mental" Environment where I could never Really rely in people. So to predict their actions Began reading them. I warn anyone: it Originally comes from a big place of Distrust. It Makes one paranoid.

Basel AyoubBasel Ayoub (17 days ago)
There's another critical technique. That is asking people you know how they feel and linking the visual to what they say. This is my number one tool.

Monique- Naomi PretoriusMonique- Naomi Pretorius (17 days ago)
I love his smile tho

YouTube RocksYouTube Rocks (17 days ago)
I think therefore I am.......LOL
blah blah blah.........Good info good tutorial thanks .....body language

Watching YOUWatching YOU (18 days ago)
BlaBla .

Lizie BlueLizie Blue (18 days ago)
you are so cuteee!!❤

ThrivalistThrivalist (19 days ago)
Where is their attention? On your perpetually moving gigantic hands!

TheProRebel 00TheProRebel 00 (19 days ago)
i'm not trying to be a bad guy but it is so easy to manipulate people, not all tho but most of them!

Javla Fitta kurwablyatJavla Fitta kurwablyat (20 days ago)
I made you hit 35k

osz osamaosz osama (20 days ago)

Smog ThunderSmog Thunder (20 days ago)
as a psychologist this is wrong

tim cooktim cook (22 days ago)
your big eye contact scared me for days... lol

Yaki TokYaki Tok (23 days ago)
I got overwhelming anxiety from 1:00

Bhavya GautamBhavya Gautam (23 days ago)
oh my gosh, guy's too hot!

James KaeppelJames Kaeppel (24 days ago)
this guy should rename his channel "Lessons From People Watching" haha

Minakshi!Minakshi! (24 days ago)
first you say that can you read any once mind

Stephanie BurrisStephanie Burris (24 days ago)
talker that talk a lot bothers me lol idk I wanna go hide especially when I'm on the transit here. how can I adjust help lol

NasaNasa (25 days ago)

Bradley NicklowBradley Nicklow (26 days ago)
the truth is your a dick
Charisma on Command and stop judging people

CovertAgent7CovertAgent7 (26 days ago)
First video I've seen of you because it showed up in my recommended sidebar. I was captivated by it. Subscribed so I can remember to browse more of the channel later.

Anita SarmanovaAnita Sarmanova (28 days ago)
His smile is so adorable )

specter290specter290 (28 days ago)
pseudo science.

AFrisk GAFrisk G (28 days ago)
i have a mentalism power
what will happened to me?

AFrisk GAFrisk G (28 days ago)
i have a mentalism power
what will happened to me?

Michael MorrisMichael Morris (29 days ago)
0:24 .. it would not be Peter or John

Habiba NaielHabiba Naiel (1 month ago)
It'll be loaaaaaads better if u summarize the tips in visual bullet points at the end of the video

JustKeithJustKeith (1 month ago)
I like everything but his hair. Just buzz it short.

Zo3yZed E.Zo3yZed E. (1 month ago)
I am 19 years old ,low self esteem, low self confidence I am terrible at conversations , I feel like I am a robot , I am always out of a group I am so tired of this , sometimes I ask myself why I am like this I can't handle this anymore I wish that I could do something about that I watch a lot videos about improving myself but they didn't seem to have that impact on me 😔😔😔 can a person really change his personality ?!!!! What do I have to do ? I am lost ......

The BeautyBenzThe BeautyBenz (1 month ago)
lmao I loved the bug eye story I laughed out loud!

Dermot HeaneyDermot Heaney (1 month ago)
Your channel is soooo good, I love all your videos. Please keep making them. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Doug ParkerDoug Parker (1 month ago)
if aliens watched youtube...

فيصل الخالديفيصل الخالدي (1 month ago)
the problem is at the first step, what is self awareness i don't get it??

WinterWolfWinterWolf (1 month ago)
OH NO, i smiled when i saw this video. that cant be good

BOY IN A BOXBOY IN A BOX (1 month ago)

Big BopperBig Bopper (1 month ago)
And I can read that your gay so who cares

Aya JabAya Jab (1 month ago)
Wow, his mouth is so huge

Detest StarDetest Star (1 month ago)
this guy is a twink douchebag and a con artist. READ

Zeynep Şeyma DURMAZZeynep Şeyma DURMAZ (1 month ago)
i mean: true way of against these bad feature

Zeynep Şeyma DURMAZZeynep Şeyma DURMAZ (1 month ago)
entire of these feature belongs to Prophet Muhammed.If you want you can search.

Johnny HunterJohnny Hunter (1 month ago)
You seem really young man. It's common young people think they have everyone and everything figured out. Reality, people are BEYOND complicated, and are constantly changing. They second you think you have someone figured out, they change. Stop trying so hard.

LazyLiesLazyLies (1 month ago)
I'm an introvert with a very charming form of speech. I observe people a lot. So I can read them pretty well.

LazyLiesLazyLies (1 month ago)
*not trying to be arrogant*

Mad HypertrophyMad Hypertrophy (1 month ago)
when I watched this video, I saw how you moved your hands and body, and the way your face expression changes and I concluded that you are a very awesome guy who is very open and honest and truthful. Keep making more videos, I salute you!!!!!!!!!

min suga infires meh turns out I'm roasted chickenmin suga infires meh turns out I'm roasted chicken (1 month ago)
you are a very interesting person. and a great teacher first video I watched and I learned a lot!! thank you kind sir. For that I will SUBSCRIBE 😊

Clayton KramerClayton Kramer (1 month ago)
I'm so good I predicted that your name was Charlie!

Wenceslao FutanakiWenceslao Futanaki (1 month ago)
now i get why i dont like americans, theyre a bunch of sociopaths fakers

majorkonfuzionmajorkonfuzion (1 month ago)
0_0 it working???

Conshe TumareConshe Tumare (1 month ago)
I can read you. You are a faggot.

Mimi islamMimi islam (1 month ago)
hi from egypt

Ocean WongOcean Wong (1 month ago)
I laughed out loud when you synchronized your glance up at the top right-hand corner with the pop-up ad there.
Nice use of direction our attention.

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